Life is beautiful!

Seizing opportunities!

Lalitha’s Story continued!

 Lalitha’s is one of the first ladies I brought into the project; you may have read her story in my blog. She lives with her mother in a tsunami affected fishing village just on the edge of Colombo. Her house, to our eyes looks like a shack, but to her and her mother it is home and it is all they have. Surrounded by many other families in similar conditions, many much worst. Believe it or not, this small cluster of homes, nestled between the shores of the beach and the train tracks (actually so close to the train track that I would say most people there could touch the passing train from inside their house) is situated right next to one of the best hotels in Sri Lanka, Mount Lavina, a 5 start colonial style grand place, with rooms for $120 a night, seems so unbalanced.

 

Lalitha is 43, and never married, and in Sri Lankan culture there is little chance of her marrying at her age, and with hardly any work for women life was a real struggle for her. So when Lalitha joined my project it was a big turning point for her, and she quickly seized the opportunity and began making more bags than anyone else. It was a turning point for me too, as the project had just begun and she got it going for me, working along side the family and sending regular boxes of bags to sell, not to mention that her ability to seize the opportunity given to her, (when 5 other women form her village who were also given the opportunity turned it down complaining it was too far to come on the bus) has been a huge inspiration to me in my own journey to get this project up and running.

 

When I saw her I knew she had strength and determination, and I only wanted motivated women, women who could use bags of colour as a stepping stone to move out of poverty. I prayed that I would find the right women and I did. However last week I found out she has got a job in Dubai as a house maid and has now left Sri Lanka and our project. My immediate reaction was oh no I have let her down I didnt provided enough work for her and she has had to go else where. What a crazy way to look at this and when my panic subsided, I looked at it for what it truly is, I had given her the means to move forward and out of poverty, I had done exactly what I had intended, I had become so caught up in the fact that I hadn’t yet got the ‘big order’ I thought the project needed to help these women that I over looked that I was helping them.

 

Nearly every Sri Lankan I met, who was living in poverty knew that a job in the middle east for a couple of years would give them enough money to return to Sri Lanka and help their family to make that shift out of poverty and even use that money to set up a small business in their paradise island which they love so much. Lalitha was clever she knew what she was doing, using the money from bags of colour to get her visa and her flight out and up. She is an inspiration to me and I am blessed to have had the opportunity to help her on her way.

Now our project is one woman short, one very brilliant woman, but I am sure that there are a 1000 more to fill her place. I just need to get out there and find her.

Life is beautiful when you see it for what it really is!